I need help im so confused?

i think you are doing whats best for you and most importantly you have to be comfortable. do not bring your kids around a new man until you think its right, those are your kids thas personal and you dont want to hurt them and introduce them to a new man until you know that its right bcus you never know what will happen that day after or week after he has met them, you dont want them to be have all different pics in there heads of different men its not a good look for them, they are toooooooo young. you are not a slut. you have to make yourself happy because your mom cant be a personal lover she cant satisfy your person woman needs so ignore it, shes probably jus upset at you and your husband. but she will get over it trust me! get more aquainted with your new man and when you are ready then you can let him meet your kids until then have fun sweety and be very safe! pls be safe